AmaShayina nabaseNtshonalanga banemibono ehlukene yesikhathi
•Umqondo wabantu baseShayina wesikhathi uvamise ukungaqondakali kahle, ngokuvamile ubhekisela enkathini yesikhathi: Umqondo wabantu baseNtshonalanga wesikhathi unemba kakhulu. Isibonelo, uma amaShayina ethi ngizokubona emini, ngokuvamile kusho ukuthi phakathi kuka-11 ekuseni no-1 ntambama: AbaseNtshonalanga bavame ukubuza ukuthi isikhathi sini emini.
Ungaphazamisi ukuthi izwi elikhulu alinabungane
•Mhlawumbe iyakhuluma noma enye i-quirk, kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yisiphi isizathu, izinga le-decibel lenkulumo yesiShayina lihlala liphakeme kakhulu kunelabaseNtshonalanga. Akubona ubungane ukukhulumela phezulu, kuwumkhuba wabo.
AmaShayina athi sawubona
•Ikhono labantu baseNtshonalanga lokuxhawula nokugona libonakala lingokwemvelo, kodwa abantu baseShayina bahlukile. AmaShayina nawo athanda ukuxhawula, kodwa ajwayele ukuhambisana. AbaseNtshonalanga baxhawula ngemfudumalo nangamandla.
Ungakubukeli phansi ukubaluleka kokushintshisana ngamakhadi ebhizinisi
•Ngaphambi komhlangano, bamba ikhadi lebhizinisi eliphrintwe ngesiShayina bese ulinikeza uzakwenu waseShayina. Lokhu kuyinto okufanele uyikhumbule njengomphathi webhizinisi e-China. Uma wehluleka ukwenza kanjalo, ubukhali bakho bungalingana nokwenqaba kwakho ukuxhawula abanye. Yiqiniso, ngemva kokuthatha ikhadi lebhizinisi elinikezwe omunye umuntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ujwayele kangakanani isikhundla nesihloko sakhe, kufanele ubheke phansi, ulitadishe ngokucophelela, futhi ulibeke endaweni lapho ungayibona khona ngokungathí sina.
Qonda incazelo yegama elithi “relationship”
•Njengezisho eziningi zesiShayina, i-guanxi igama lesiShayina elingahunyushwa kalula esiNgisini. Ngokuphathelene nesizinda samasiko saseShayina, ubudlelwano bungase bube ukuxhumana okucacile phakathi kwabantu ngaphandle kobudlelwane bomndeni kanye negazi.
•Ngaphambi kokwenza ibhizinisi nabantu baseShayina, kufanele uqale uthole ukuthi ubani onquma ngempela ibhizinisi, bese-ke, indlela yokuphromotha-ukuthuthukisa kahle ubudlelwano bakho.
Ukudla kwakusihlwa akulula njengokudla
•Akungabazeki ukuthi ukwenza ibhizinisi eShayina, uzomenyelwa esidlweni sasemini noma esidlweni sakusihlwa, okuwumkhuba wamaShayina. Ungacabangi ukuthi kungazelelwe, ingasaphathwa eyokucabanga ukuthi ukudla akuxhumene nebhizinisi. Khumbula ubudlelwano obalulwe ngenhla? Yilokho kuphela. Futhi, ungamangali uma “abantu abangahlanganise lutho nebhizinisi lakho befika edilini”
Ungayizibi imikhuba yokudla yamaShayina
•Ngokombono waseNtshonalanga, idili eligcwele lesi-Manchu nesi-Han lingase libe ukumosha kancane, kodwa e-China, lokhu ukusebenza kokungenisa izihambi nomcebo womsingathi. Uma kukhona umShayina okucela ukuthi usebenzise i-perfunctory, kufanele unambitha isidlo ngasinye ngokucophelela futhi unamathele kuso kuze kube sekupheleni. Isidlo sokugcina ngokuvamile siyikhwalithi ephezulu futhi esicatshangelwayo kakhulu ngumsingathi. Okubaluleke nakakhulu, ukusebenza kwakho kuzokwenza umnikazi azizwe ukuthi uyamhlonipha futhi kumenza abukeke kahle. Uma umnikazi ejabule, kuzokulethela inhlanhla ngokwemvelo.
Ithosi
•Etafuleni lewayini lamaShayina, ukudla kuhlala kungenakuhlukaniswa nokuphuza. Uma ungaphuzi noma uphuze kakhulu, imiphumela ayimihle kakhulu. Futhi, uma wenqaba ngokuphindaphindiwe ithosti yomsingathi wakho, ngisho nangezizathu ezizwakalayo, isigameko singaba nzima. Uma ngempela ungafuni ukuyiphuza noma ungakwazi ukuyiphuza, kungcono ukukucacise ngaphambi kokuba umcimbi uqale ukuze ugweme ukuphoxeka kwabo bobabili abathintekayo.
Abantu baseShayina bathanda ukuhleba
•Engxoxweni, amaShayina “awanakwenyanya” ahluke ngokuphelele emkhubeni wabaseNtshonalanga wokuhlonipha noma ukugwema izinkinga zomuntu siqu zomunye nomunye. Kuvele ukuthi iningi lamaShayina lifuna ukwazi yonke into ehlobene nempilo yomuntu kanye nomsebenzi, ngaphandle kwezingane zaseShayina ezesabayo ukubuza imibuzo. Uma uyindoda, bazokubuza imibuzo mayelana nempahla yakho yezezimali, futhi uma ungowesifazane, cishe bayoba nesithakazelo esimweni sakho somshado.
E-China, ubuso bubaluleke kakhulu kunemali
•Kubaluleke kakhulu ukwenza amaShayina azizwe ebusweni, futhi uma wenza amaShayina alahlekelwe ubuso, cishe akunakuthethelelwa. Lesi futhi isizathu esenza abantu baseShayina bangavumi ngokuqondile lapho bekhuluma bodwa. Ngokufanayo, umqondo wokuthi "yebo" awuqinisekile eChina. Iqukethe izinga elithile lokuguquguquka futhi ingase ibe yesikhashana. Ngamafuphi, kufanele wazi ukuthi ubuso bubaluleke kakhulu kubantu baseShayina, futhi ngezinye izikhathi, bubaluleke kakhulu kunemali.
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Isikhathi sokuthumela: Aug-27-2022